Woman leaves her sister furious by having sex all day while sibling babysat

A woman has revealed that her sister is livid that she and her boyfriend spent the day laying around and having sex while she babysat their daughter — but she doesn’t think she did anything wrong. 

Reddit user ImpressiveVisit9 took to the ‘AmItheA**hole’ forum to defend herself, explaining that she and her partner work full time and spend all of their free moments with their three-year-old. 

‘We have a pretty active sex life,’ she wrote, noting that she thinks that may be part of the reason her sister is so upset. ‘We do it probably four times a week. However, we haven’t had a whole day to ourselves in a long time.

Feeling mislead: A woman has revealed her sister is furious that she spent the day having sex with her boyfriend while she was babysitting their daughter (stock image)

‘My sister has been asking if she can have my daughter for a sleepover for ages,’ she continued, ‘but we’ve never got round to it, because we always agreed that if we were having a weekend without our kid, we should plan something interesting to do that we wouldn’t be able to do with her. 

‘This was something I’d told my sister, but she didn’t say we have to do something cool for her to agree to have her niece.’

Things came to a head after the woman and her boyfriend asked her sister to watch their daughter overnight while they went to see one of their favorite bands perform at a local bar.  

The Reddit user explained that the show was on a Friday and they picked up their little girl at 7 p.m. on Saturday evening.   

‘We got her so late because my sister booked them tickets to go to the zoo, and then they went out for dinner, and then they had to drop my mom home, because she went with them,’ she said. 

‘I didn’t really mind when we got her, my sister said she had plans for the whole day.’

Not having it: Most commenters agreed that the woman's sister has no right to dictate what she does with her time when she was the one who offered to babysit

Not having it: Most commenters agreed that the woman’s sister has no right to dictate what she does with her time when she was the one who offered to babysit

The mom said they spent their free Saturday watching their favorite shows and having sex. 

‘It had been a while since we last got the chance to just spent a lot of time having fun in that way,’ she said, admitting they’ve only been having ‘quickies’ because of work stress.  

When she went to pick up her daughter, her sister asked if she had been having sex because she looked ‘messy.’

The woman, who stressed she is close with her sister, said she told her, ‘Yes,’ and laughed a little, but her sibling didn’t find it funny.  

‘She immediately soured, and when I got home I got a message from her saying it’s wrong of me to palm my kid on her because I wanted to f**k,’ the woman recounted. ‘She said that she thought if I was giving her my kid I would be out doing something beneficial and memorable. 

‘I said that we did do something memorable Friday, and it’s not my fault she booked up the next day, but she still thinks we should have taken better advantage of the time,’ she added. ‘I feel like I’m right but can’t find any way of justifying my point without sounding shallow.’

Just saying: Others thought the original poster was in the wrong because of her constant refusal to let her sister have sleepovers with her niece

Just saying: Others thought the original poster was in the wrong because of her constant refusal to let her sister have sleepovers with her niece

Most commenters agreed that the woman’s sister has no right to dictate what she does with her time when she was the one who offered to babysit. 

‘She said she’d take her and really its none of her business what you wanted to do,’ one person responded. 

‘A day full of quality time with your partner (including sex) can absolutely be “beneficial and memorable,”‘ another pointed out. ‘Your sister doesn’t get to judge you based on how you spend your free time. However, you should prepare for the fact that she may refuse to babysit after this.’

Some people thought the woman’s sister may be upset because babysitting turned out to be more work than she bargained for.  

‘I can only wonder if your sister’s salty because her time with the kiddo was actual work and not the fun bonding experience she anticipated,’ one Reddit user commented. 

There were also few others who thought the original poster was in the wrong because of her constant refusal to let her sister have sleepovers with her niece.    

‘Your sister has been wanting to hang with her niece for a while and you have consistently made it up to be this big thing where you would have to be doing something fun and memorable for to be ok with being away from her for a while,’ one person noted. ‘So when she gave you extra time to do fun and memorable things, she was upset because she thought you squandered that time.’

Read more at DailyMail.co.uk

Loading...