The seals bask in the golden autumn sunshine far below in the cove, while a few venture into the waves, playfully mingling with swimmers. From the terrace bar of George’s at the Cove in La Jolla, the view is nothing short of spectacular.

Along the coastal road, Rollerbladers glide effortlessly past, their blond hair catching the breeze, while two persistent seagulls set their sights on my fish tacos. It’s a classic Southern California scene, where the laid-back vibe mingles with moments of unexpected intensity.

Some Americans may turn up their noses at San Diego, comparing it to its glitzier cousins, Los Angeles and San Francisco. But that’s precisely what makes it special. San Diego doesn’t try to be them — it’s relaxed, unpretentious, and wonderfully its own.

While many British visitors flock to LA or San Francisco, you might wonder why. San Francisco has been overtaken by Silicon Valley’s gentrification and its growing issues with homelessness. LA, for all its glamour, struggles with congestion and smog.

But just 120 miles south of LA lies San Diego, where the sun shines brighter, the vibe is calmer, and the experience feels more genuine.

San Diego: California’s Birthplace of Bliss

San Diego holds the distinction of being the first place Europeans set foot on the Pacific Coast, earning its nickname as the birthplace of California. It’s the spiritual home of classic California stereotypes: sun-kissed locals, surfers in vintage VW vans, and a weather forecast that seems eternally perfect, free from LA’s smog or San Francisco’s fog.

The city boasts a stunning coastline with plenty of beaches, making it one of the best destinations for whale watching in San Diego. Whether you’re relaxing by the water or chasing wildlife, the possibilities are endless.

Exploring San Diego: From Downtown to La Jolla

Our trip began at the waterfront Marriott Marquis San Diego Marina, a stone’s throw from the Gaslamp Quarter, the epicenter of the city’s nightlife. Known as the craft beer capital of America, San Diego’s vibrant bar scene ensures your glass is always full.

Unlike LA, San Diego is bike-friendly, making it easy to explore.

A ride from the USS Midway, a massive aircraft carrier-turned-museum, to Balboa Park, offers a blend of history and nature. Balboa Park is a sprawling 1,200-acre gem with 16 museums, formal gardens, and the world-renowned San Diego Zoo.

The zoo’s open-air enclosures and wildlife conservation efforts make it a must-visit.

The city’s culinary scene also shines. Influenced by its proximity to Mexico, San Diego offers unforgettable dining experiences. Fish tacos are a specialty, and no visit is complete without dinner at Café Coyote in Old Town.

With strolling mariachi players and over 100 varieties of tequila, it’s as lively as it is delicious. For a more refined experience, head to La Jolla, the charming seaside neighborhood that once housed Dr. Seuss.

La Jolla: Where Coastal Beauty Meets Charm

La Jolla is a world apart from downtown San Diego.

Home to the University of California San Diego and a stunning, rugged coastline, it offers a mix of culture and natural beauty. Instead of SeaWorld, visit the Birch Aquarium at the Scripps Institute of Oceanography for an intimate marine life experience.

Nearby, La Jolla Cove is perfect for spotting seals and sea lions, their playful honks adding to the charm of the area.

For accommodations, the Catamaran Resort Hotel and Spa in Pacific Beach was a standout.

Nestled amid lush palm trees and ponds filled with koi fish, the resort combines comfort with quirkiness. Paddleboarding on its saltwater bay was a fun (if mildly humbling) experience, while nighttime cruises on Victorian-style paddle steamers offered a romantic touch.

Adventures Beyond the City

While San Diego’s city life is captivating, the surrounding natural wonders beckon.

Just north of La Jolla is Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve, a breathtaking 2,000-acre stretch of coastal wilderness. The sunsets here are unforgettable, with hikers gathering on rocky cliffs to watch the Pacific glow in its final moments of light.

For a more rugged escape, venture to Anza-Borrego Desert State Park, California’s largest state park. Spanning 600,000 acres of dramatic desert landscapes, it’s an adventurer’s dream. Bring plenty of water and watch for mountain lions and rattlesnakes.

If that sounds too daring, the beaches are always waiting.

California Dreamin’, Redefined

San Diego redefines the California dream. It’s where the relaxed spirit of the state comes to life, offering something for everyone — from beach lovers and craft beer enthusiasts to history buffs and nature seekers.

So, skip the usual California spots and head south. San Diego is ready to welcome you with its sun-drenched shores, vibrant culture, and warm hospitality.