The heavily pregnant wife of a paramedic who was fatally stabbed outside a McDonald’s has vowed to teach their two children their father was a hero.
Steven Tougher, 29, was allegedly stabbed multiple times in the carpark of a McDonald’s in Campbelltown, southwest Sydney, at about 5:30 am, on April 14.
The NSW Ambulance paramedic and former nurse had married the love of his life just seven weeks before he was fatally stabbed inside his ambulance.
At his memorial service on Monday, His wife Madison told mourners she had made a ‘new vow’ to her late husband and ‘forever love’.
‘On that day, I made a promise to you, I vowed to love you for the rest of my days and I became your wife,’ she said.
‘Today, just seven weeks later, I make a new vow to you.
‘Today I vow that our two beautiful children will always know what a selfless hardworking, kind, compassionate person you were.
‘They will forever understand how their dad was a hero who helped people through the most painful and sickest times.’
NSW Ambulance Commissioner Dr Dominic Morgan posthumously presented Mr Tougher with a pandemic service medal and national medal at the service, which was held at the University of Wollongong, south of Sydney.
Mr Tougher’s heavily-pregnant wife Madison vowed to teach their two children their father had been a ‘hero’ during the paramedic’s celebration of life on Monday
Steven Tougher, 29, was allegedly stabbed multiple times in the carpark of a McDonald’s in Campbelltown, southwest Sydney, at about 5:30am, on April 14
The casket of paramedic Steven Tougher is seen arriving in a hearse to his memorial at the University of Wollongong, south of Sydney, on Monday morning
Paramedic Steven Tougher (right) married the love of his life, Madison (left), just four weeks before he was stabbed to death outside a southwest Sydney McDonald’s
Steven Tougher was embraced as he arrived at the memorial with the rest of his family
The commissioner led tributes at the service on Monday, describing him as a ‘young man of limitless potential, taken too soon’.
‘Every single one of his colleagues has spoken so positively about his larger than life personality, his sense of humour, but also a strong sense of natural justice,’ he said.
He thanked responding paramedics and doctors who went ‘above and beyond to do everything in their power to save Steve’s life’.
‘Few will know the lengths that you went to,’ he said.
Mr Tougher’s family was handed the National Medal of Service by Governor-General David Hurley in recognition of the duties he would have completed.
NSW Premier Chris Minns, Health Minister Ryan Park, the late paramedic’s NSW Ambulance colleagues and his friends and relatives attended the service.
The formal ceremony began at 11am, with ambulance and police helicopters flying overhead as paramedics formed a guard of honour to escort Mr Tougher’s hearse.
R.E.M’s Everybody Hurts played as the casket, draped with the NSW Ambulance Service flag, was carried into the service by family members.
Mr Tougher’s wife Madison, dad Jeff and sister Jess all spoke at the ceremony alongside his friends and a fellow paramedic.
The premier told mourners the young paramedic ‘represents the best of us’.
Mr and Mrs Tougher (above) were set to welcome a new baby in the upcoming weeks – a fundraiser started to help their family has raised more than $500,000
Health Minister Ryan Park broke down while sharing his tribute to Mr Tougher on Monday
Police officers attended the memorial for young paramedic Steven Tougher on Monday
Mr Tougher’s casket was draped with a NSW Ambulance Service flag
Women carried large bouquets of flowers into the University of Wollongong
Paramedics formed a guard of honour to escort Mr Tougher’s hearse to the venue
‘Selfless, brave and dedicated, not motivated by wealth or by money or status, but by the need to help others,’ Mr Minns said.
‘It’s a rare person that would choose that life as a vocation. But as Steven’s family told me, it’s a life he was determined to live from the very beginning.
‘The pain we feel today is partly driven by a deep longing to fill the place of life that Steven will not live.’
Heartbreaking scenes played out two weeks ago when more than 20 members of Mr Tougher’s family visited the scene of his death.
They lay flowers over the mountain of tributes placed by mourners and before sharing an emotional tribute to their ‘hero’.
‘Steven had an uncanny ability to connect with people, to truly understand their needs, and to provide care with genuine warmth and empathy,’ the Tougher family said shortly after his death.
‘He was always ready with a smile, a kind word, or a lending hand and brought joy to those around him.’
The young paramedic had been married just weeks before his untimely death with over $500,000 raised for Madison and his children.
It’s understood Mr Tougher had been nearing the end of a night shift when a stranger allegedly lunged at him and repeatedly stabbed him in the stomach.
Mr Tougher studied at Charles Sturt University and graduated from his paramedicine degree in mid-2022 (pictured, Mr and Mrs Tougher at his graduation)
Mr Tougher and his wife Madison were married just four weeks before the tragic incident (the couple are pictured dancing at their wedding)
Mr Tougher and his colleague had been ‘working hard all night’ and were taking a meal break at the time in a McDonalds car park.
As police rushed to the scene and arrested his alleged attacker, Mr Tougher was rushed to Liverpool Hospital in a critical condition where he later died.
Jordan Fineanganofo, 21, has been charged with murder. He remains in custody and is due to next face a Sydney court on June 28.
His lawyer told AAP the day after the attack that his client had been receiving extensive mental health treatment but was ‘off treatment and medication’ at the time of the alleged stabbing.
Mr Tougher studied at Charles Sturt University where he was the President of the online Student Representative Committee.
Before his graduation, Mr Tougher worked at Wollongong Private Hospital as a nurse. He graduated from his para-medicine degree in mid-2022.
He became a paramedic intern in May, 2022, and was just weeks away from going on paternity leave when he was killed.
Mr Tougher’s father, Jeff, is leading the charge for stronger laws to protect emergency workers and ensure what happened to his son never happens again.
Mr Tougher (above) had reportedly dreamt of being a paramedic since he was five years old but was tragically killed just months after joining the NSW Ambulance team
It’s understood Mr Tougher was filling out paperwork for the end of his night shift when he was stabbed in the back of his ambulance (above)
NSW Police received a code one call at about 5.30am on Friday when Mr Tougher was repeatedly stabbed in the abdomen (pictured, police at the scene)
‘I hope that the loss of Steven will not be for nothing, and that this senseless act can be a catalyst for change, to support better working conditions for his brothers and sisters in blue,’ he told reporters at the time.
‘Nobody deserves the grief that this event has brought forward.’
He said he wants mandatory life sentences for offenders found guilty of killing emergency workers.
NSW Health Secretary Susan Pearce broke down in tears as she expressed sympathy for the victim’s family.
‘The health system is one big family and to lose someone in this way is just incomprehensible to us,’ she said
‘And to lose someone in this way is incomprehensible to us.
‘I would like to extend my deepest condolences to the wife and family of the paramedic.’