Jessie J calls out trolls and insists telling someone how to feel is ‘not the way to do it’


Jessie J has spoken out about the way ‘women are with each other’ during pregnancy and insisted ‘it is not a competition’. 

The singer, 34, surprised fans on Friday by revealing she was expecting a child, 13 months after suffering a devastating miscarriage. 

The star has been very open about her pregnancy, opening up on the ‘overwhelming’ anxieties she has faced so far, including morning sickness

‘Pregnancy is not a competition’: Jessie J has called out trolls who ‘tell women how to feel’ on Monday as she reflected on comments left on a video she shared about morning sickness

But on Monday morning, the Price Tag singer took a moment to call out trolls who had left comments on a recent video she shared, in which she broke down in tears while suffering with sickness.

Airing her frustrations with her 12.3M Instagram followers, she penned: ‘The comments on videos about pregnancy is a whole new experience… It’s very interesting observing how women are with each other.

‘Let me just say this, pregnancy is the most relatable but UNIQUE journey.

‘We all feel it and experience and deal with it OUR own way.

Difficult: The Price Tag singer took a moment to call out trolls who had left comments on a recent video she shared, in which she broke down in tears while suffering with sickness

Difficult: The Price Tag singer took a moment to call out trolls who had left comments on a recent video she shared, in which she broke down in tears while suffering with sickness

Angry: Airing her frustrations with her 12.3M Instagram followers, she penned: 'The comments on videos about pregnancy is a whole new experience... It's very interesting observing how women are with each other

Angry: Airing her frustrations with her 12.3M Instagram followers, she penned: ‘The comments on videos about pregnancy is a whole new experience… It’s very interesting observing how women are with each other

‘Telling someone how they feel or what to feel is just not the way to do it.’

She continued: ‘I’m not even talking about some of you commenting to me, I’m talking about how you comment to and on each other.

‘Everybody is different. Literally. And every story and journey is different.

‘Pregnancy is not a competition. Pregnancy is not who is doing it better or right because not one way works for everyone.

Candid: Jessie recently opened up on the 'overwhelming' anxieties she faced during the early stages of her pregnancy

Candid: Jessie recently opened up on the ‘overwhelming’ anxieties she faced during the early stages of her pregnancy

‘I can only speak on the first trimester fully and I believe however sh** or amazing or awful or scary or joyful it is. Gratitude is always there as a given.

‘But we are allowed to feel. We are allowed to do it however WE want. We got this.’  

Jessie later shared an insight into her first trimester by posting a sweet video montage to Instagram – gushing that she is ‘happy, grateful and excited’.

'Happy Grateful Excited': Pregnant Jessie J shared a glimpse into her first trimester with sweet bump shots this week... and bit into a whole cucumber as she combated cravings

‘Happy Grateful Excited’: Pregnant Jessie J shared a glimpse into her first trimester with sweet bump shots this week… and bit into a whole cucumber as she combated cravings

And combating pregnancy cravings, the star giggled as one clip showed her biting into a whole cucumber after dipping it in hummus.

Sharing the collection of clips with her 12.3M followers, the Price Tag singer played Roy Ayers’  Everybody Loves the Sunshine over the top.

Jessie’s growing bump could be seen in a series of clips, with one showing it exposed as she went for an ultrasound scan.

While she tenderly rubbed her bump in another clip while biting into a whole cucumber and hummus in front of her open fridge. 

She still pulled off some dance moves too, donning heeled boots and leggings while having a boogie at home.

‘Happy Grateful Excited,’ simply wrote Jessie in the caption as she added a cucumber emoji.

Her journey has been up and down so far, and on Sunday pregnant Jessie broke down in tears in a candid video montage shared to Instagram on Sunday, which documented her first trimester.

Feeling awful! Layered against Players by Coi Leray, she hunched over while leaning against her kitchen worksurface

Oh dear: She later curled up on the floor over a bin asthe feelings of sickness overwhelmed her

Feeling awful! Layered against Players by Coi Leray, she hunched over while leaning against her kitchen worksurface before curling up on the floor

Croaking, ‘I can’t explain how sick I feel!’ in one of the clips, the make-up free star went on to vomit into a sick bag and burst into tears while laying in bed.

Layered against Players by Coi Leray, she hunched over while leaning against her kitchen worksurface before curling up on the floor.

Despite the heartbreaking recordings, elsewhere the Price Tag songstress joked about in silly selfie-style videos.

Yuck! Croaking, 'I can't explain how sick I feel!' in one of the clips, the make-up free star went on to vomit into a sick bag and burst into tears while laying in bed

Yuck! Croaking, ‘I can’t explain how sick I feel!’ in one of the clips, the make-up free star went on to vomit into a sick bag and burst into tears while laying in bed

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